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CommunityReddit r/ObGyn·Jul 18, 2026

Tubal ligation regrets

By <name>/u/Fresh_Anxiety8531</name><uri>https://old.reddit.com/user/Fresh_Anxiety8531</uri>

(from washington state) in 2023, at 22 years old i got my “tubes tied” with Filshie clips on state insurance. i’m now 25 with 2 kids. My partner who is 29 has no kids. i’m happy and in a relationship with him however i can’t give him any kids due to the choice i made a few years ago.. i was pressured by my family and my kids fathers family to stop having kids after 2 back to back pregnancies. i’m regretting this decision.. their dad is having a baby with another woman and his mom was one of the reasons i decided to do this stupid shit.. so she just didn’t want him to have more kids with me? i’ve had unexplained pelvic pain for some time now, i just don’t feel like myself. i want them out even if i don’t end up having more kids. i hate this feeling.. and the pain. How would i go about doing so? i just want to feel normal. when i talk to my doctor about it she tells me that i made the right choice and wont hear me out, she didn’t even let me explain all the other symptoms ive been having. i feel like no one will listen to me. The closest place i found was in Oregon for 12,000.. looking for advice… submitted by /u/Fresh_Anxiety8531 [link] [comments]

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